![[IMAGE DESCRIPTION: Picture shows eight piece background in blue, black, red, and yellow, the colors of the polyamory flag. In the foreground, there is a picture of a porpoise swimming with its mouth open. TOP TEXT READS: “Solves all shipping wars” BOTTOM TEXT READS: “By making both ships into an OT3”]](http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lwasze85JB1r504odo1_400.jpg)
[IMAGE DESCRIPTION: Picture shows eight piece background in blue, black, red, and yellow, the colors of the polyamory flag. In the foreground, there is a picture of a porpoise swimming with its mouth open. TOP TEXT READS: “Solves all shipping wars” BOTTOM TEXT READS: “By making both ships into an OT3”]
![[IMAGE DESCRIPTION: Picture shows eight piece background in blue, black, red, and yellow, the colors of the polyamory flag. In the foreground, there is a picture of a porpoise swimming with its mouth open. TOP TEXT READS: Tell people you have multiple partners. BOTTOM TEXT READS: “Until you find some you want to be mono with someone right?”]](http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lwa66afbt91r504odo1_400.jpg)
[IMAGE DESCRIPTION: Picture shows eight piece background in blue, black, red, and yellow, the colors of the polyamory flag. In the foreground, there is a picture of a porpoise swimming with its mouth open. TOP TEXT READS: Tell people you have multiple partners. BOTTOM TEXT READS: “Until you find some you want to be mono with someone right?”]
![[IMAGE DESCRIPTION: Picture shows eight piece background in blue, black, red, and yellow, the colors of the polyamory flag. In the foreground, there is a picture of a porpoise swimming with its mouth open. TOP TEXT READS: Come out as poly. BOTTOM TEXT READS: “Don’t you worry about STDS?”]](http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lwa64e0ra01r504odo1_400.jpg)
[IMAGE DESCRIPTION: Picture shows eight piece background in blue, black, red, and yellow, the colors of the polyamory flag. In the foreground, there is a picture of a porpoise swimming with its mouth open. TOP TEXT READS: Come out as poly. BOTTOM TEXT READS: “Don’t you worry about STDS?”]
AnonymousSorry! We didn’t have many submissions for a good long while, and then I got wrapped up in end of the semester hecticness and the hecticness of working retail during the holiday season.
Never fear, though, we’re back!
- Brynn
AnonymousI can only give you some basic advice, since you know your partner way better than I do, obviously.
Just be honest. Make it clear that you care or love about him a lot, and that it isn’t about him not being a good enough partner, it’s about the structure of monogamous relationships in general. So perhaps consider talking more in generals, as in, “I think I have a really hard time with monogamous relationships” rather than “I think I have a really hard time with our relationship being monogamous.” It may make it easier for him to take, as he may be less likely to be hurt if he knows this is an issue you seem to have with monogamous relationships in general, and not just being monogamous with him.
Aside from that, good luck! And if any followers have some additional input, please feel free to drop us an ask!
- Brynn
![[IMAGE DESCRIPTION: Picture shows eight piece background in blue, black, red, and yellow, the colors of the polyamory flag. In the foreground, there is a picture of a porpoise swimming with its mouth open. TOP TEXT READS: “Friend swoons about his boy for weeks.” BOTTOM TEXT READS: “Actually trying to set you two up.”]](http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lurpyuT1ub1r504odo1_400.jpg)
[IMAGE DESCRIPTION: Picture shows eight piece background in blue, black, red, and yellow, the colors of the polyamory flag. In the foreground, there is a picture of a porpoise swimming with its mouth open. TOP TEXT READS: “Friend swoons about his boy for weeks.” BOTTOM TEXT READS: “Actually trying to set you two up.”]
![Submitted by andwasheditaway.
[DESCRIPTION: Picture shows eight piece background in blue, black, red, and yellow, the colors of the polyamory flag. In the foreground, there is a picture of a porpoise swimming with its mouth open. TOP TEXT READS: Tell your friends you’re not really into monogamy. BOTTOM TEXT READS: “It’s just a phase!”]](http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lu5ngjtY801r504odo1_400.jpg)
Submitted by andwasheditaway.
[DESCRIPTION: Picture shows eight piece background in blue, black, red, and yellow, the colors of the polyamory flag. In the foreground, there is a picture of a porpoise swimming with its mouth open. TOP TEXT READS: Tell your friends you’re not really into monogamy. BOTTOM TEXT READS: “It’s just a phase!”]
